Bears coach John Fox was a defensive back at San Diego State, had a cup of offseason coffee with the Tampa Bay Buccaneers after graduating in 1978, then began his coaching career as a graduate assistant at SDSU. In Part 2 of his conversation with CSNChicago.com Bears Insider John “Moon” Mullin, Fox shares how he’s dealt with the life, why he’s still coaching and how long he thinks it’s something he’ll be doing.
Q: With all the success you’ve had and at age 60, did you consider just calling it a career after you and the Denver Broncos agreed to end it?
A: I’ve always known exactly what I was going to do: I was going to play football as long as I could, and then I was going to coach. That got instilled in me being around role models and coaches that inspired me. Next to teaching school, I can’t think of anything that would be as gratifying for me.
In life, early on, you try to provide for your family and there’s a job you have to do. But at this point in my career, I don’t have to do it any more. As far as taking care of my family, I’ve done that. Now I do it because I want to. I love being with the guys, love just week to week, the old ‘Wide World of Sports’ mantra, ‘the thrill of victory, the agony of defeat.’
Q: How about a “gap” year, regrouping? Did you and Robin think about taking a year or whatever off?
A: I would say I thought more about it after Carolina going to Denver than I did this time around. In either case, it wasn’t about the money. I was prepared to [skip a year]. But I’ve been in the league so long, you meet people, and I’d been with Pittsburgh, the Raiders, the Giants. Those were owners who weren’t some billionaires buying teams, who don’t really understand football. These people LIVED it.
The Rooneys. Al Davis. The Maras. The McCaskeys. Halas. People who lived football.
And then Ryan [Pace]. He’s young but he’s been in the business for 14 years. Great people skills, good evaluator. A lot of people told me, don’t go to Denver. But now I’m Chicago. I love it.
Q: So then, where is home for you? You’ve got a home in Florida but where’s ‘home?’
A: Florida. You’ve got two coasts to choose from. Water’s warmer. You’ve got islands you can drive to by boat. No state tax. I’m on the water all the time.
Q: The life of a coach is one step above the military as far as constant movement and new “homes.” How hard has that part been?
A: You don’t do this without a stud wife. And I’ve got a stud wife AND stud kids. Really, I’ve spent my life raising other people’s kids. My wife has raised our kids. I don’t say I had no hand in it, but when you’re younger, busting it to get ahead in life. I still do it the same way I did 15 years ago – look at tape, evaluate players, that’s just how I do it.
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Robin and the kids, they’re the ones that made the thing tick. I don’t care what coach; you have to have that.
Q: Do you set aside a “date night?”
A: Friday night. And it may not be just her and me. I may not have seen my kids awake all week. ‘Date night’ is a little easier now with the kids older; and my 15-year-old just says, ‘Dad, can you drop me off two miles away.’
You sign up for this, and we’re very well compensated. Your wife and children kinda do, but it wasn’t their choice. So whenever it’s rough, you feel worse for them, if that makes sense.
Growing up, my Dad was a Navy SEAL would be gone for six months, we couldn’t even write him, we weren’t even allowed to know where he was. I think you grow up a little tougher like that. So when my wife complains about all of this, I tell her, ‘Hey, it was way worse than this.’ [laughs]
Q: Have you every thought of the point when you’ll give it up?
A: I haven’t hit that point yet. I’ll walk away when I do. And I don’t know if I’ll ever hit it [laughs]. I don’t know. I’ve had 8,000 coaches tell me, ‘If I’m doing this when I’m 60 or 65, punch me in the face.’ I’d’ve punched a lot of people in the face. Sid Gilman was one of them; he was 70. He retired for one year, then he said, ‘I got tired of my biggest decision every day being what time am I teeing off?’
When you do this for a living for most of your adult life, that excitement level is hard to match. It’s like a drug. Just the passion. That’s where I’m at. My agent, Bob LaMonte, was saying to me, ‘You know, you’re the only one of my [coaching] clients who’s been a head coach for three different teams. I never thought of that.